Monday, March 26, 2012

Top Ten Indicators He is just not in to you.

You know he is not in to you (does not love you) When....


10. He says he may be available to date but not for at least four years.

9. He reminds you repeatedly that all affection is an expression of friendship only.

8. He says he thought about dating you but remember the time you went bazerk.

7. He says he just wants friends in his life but he is on several dating sites stating he is seeking a Long-term, Meaningful relationship.

6. He tells you he seeking to hang out with women for a beer and/or a movie, but does not call you because you are too emotional.

5. When asked about spending time with him, he tells you "I'm not interested."

4. He tells you he writes romanic and erotic emails to the women he finds online, but all the love letters, notes you write to him go unanswered and ignored.

3. You ask him if he got your love notes and he said yes, he didn't read them and threw them away.

2.He makes you promise to stop texting him.

1. He says "I was thinking about getting a prostitute, but na I rather just have sex with you."

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Dating and friendship .....

Dating and friendship... is it like Love and Marriage. Can the two really coincide together.

Ever think... darn I should have held out for that romantic dinner. Yes, I love him. Yes, we are good together. Yes, "He completes me." At one time he said we were just friends... albeit Best friends. Now, he says he loves to hold me, fantasies about me, and is attracted to me. But, he is also on Catholic Match, Plenty of Fish, E-Harmony, most likely Craig's List (but I never checked) all the while saying he, of course, is not looking for someone, at least no one in particular. He is man who likes to be spontaneous, keep his options open, make new friends. We have a friendship, we have a erotic connection, we have something, everything, and nothing all at the same time. He wants me only occasionally? I'm not sure if this is what building a relationship is about: allowing my lover to be free and hoping and praying he come back to me. sounds a bit sad, like caught in a dream or fantasy. If I wake up I just might lose the very thing I am seeking.